Archive | June, 2012

Week in Review: June 27th, 2012

27 Jun

 

So we are finally back under one roof again…woo hoo!!! And I guess we will go ahead and add one more woo hoo! That is how excited I am about this!

So Thursday and Friday I passed all of my final tests and role plays and was more than ready to come back. Zoey was feeling better and it was just breaking my heart being away from her.

So the flight home…was miserable, horrible, no good type of flight. The original plan was for me to fly out at 4:00 and get home at 7:00. Right before we boarded the plane a really bad storm came so it delayed my flight for forty five minutes. But it had lots of lighting so I was more than happy sitting at the gate. But once we boarded it was when it took a turn. Our plane did not have any air conditioner and due to the previous lightning storm an air control tower went down in New Jersey grounding all planes out of New York. So there we sat on the runway just waiting…and waiting. That would have been my version of hell. I am not even kidding you. Being stuck in a hot chair, no air, hate bothering people to get up to go to the restroom, going nowhere when all you want to do is see your family. So we waited for 3 hours and for a while there it got pretty scary for the older people especially. I know I was about to pass out so I am sure they were no doing too well. They were putting wet towels on them, fanning them, etc. So thank goodness there is this law that limits time sitting on the runway so at three hours we all walked off the plane went to the gate, waited 5 minutes then walked right back on and waited 2 more hours before finally taking off! Once to Atlanta I was able to make a connecting flight but once we boarded that plane they announced they had no pilots so we had to deboard and then wait again! So by the time all of that was said and done I did not land in Birmingham until 2:45 am which did not get me in my drive way until 3:30 am!

So I didn’t get this big welcome from Zoey at the airport like I imagined. I kind of work her up and took her out of my mom’s bed when she was sound asleep but once we got home she was WIDE awake and realized I was back and where she was. So of course she wanted to play for 2 hours in her room! J Even though I had been up for 26 hours at that point I did not care one bit because my baby girl was in the same room as me. She just kept running up to me and Eric giving us the BIGGEST hugs saying “Mommy” “Daddy” I think she thought it was all a dream. It was too cute! So we finally all went to bed around 5:30 am and ended up sleeping in until 10:00.

We had a pretty chill weekend. I actually did not leave the neighborhood one bit until Monday morning. We just hung out here, played, went to the pool, and just spent time together as a family. I needed it for sure!!!

On Monday Zoey was back at school, Eric at work, and my first day finally doing my new job. Yes, I have been employed for my new company for almost two months but all the training was finally done and I was back out in the field. I was a little nervous at first but by the time today has rolled around I am feeling more and more comfortable and feel confident I made a good decision and move into this position. I am very excited and look forward to where it will take me!

We are getting back into the swing of things around here. Except that Zoey wants to stay up real late and is REALLY fighting going to bed. But other than that we are getting settled back in. Thanks again for all of your prayers while I was gone. It was so hard and I would have not been able to survive without it!

Week in Review: June 14th- 20th, 2012

20 Jun

Another week down!!! I am almost out of here!!! Can you feel my excitement!?!?! I have made some really great friends here and have learned way more than I thought my brain could handle BUT I am almost there! 3 more tests and then I am done…WooHoo!

I seriously can’t WAIT until Friday! I know I would not have made it without Eric coming to visit me this weekend. I was so sad and the anticipation of his arrival got me through the first week and then made the last week go pretty quick too. It worked out because he had frequent flyer miles so he was able to come for $26! We had the best time hanging out together in the city. We started out by touring the 911 Memorial then we walked on over to enroll Zoey for college at NYU. Just kidding about the enrollment but let me tell you this is where this mommy will be pushing her to go for sure! :)

They were having this really cool flea market at the NYU campus so I was able to buy Zoey an Elmo shirt! We then walked on over to Washington Square to see the famous arch I have always planned on visiting but every time I leave NYC I realize I forgot to go see it. So I was SUPER excited about finally getting to see it.

We then went to The Met, Central Park, then Times Square to catch a double decker bus tour…something else I have always wanted to do. It was such a beautiful day and we had the best time learning all about the city. After dinner it was pretty late and time to catch the train back to the hotel.

Sunday we slept in and had the laziest day ever! It was SO nice. We have not had a day like that since Zoey came. We just had the best time eating, watching movies, and just hanging out with each other.

While we were in New York Zoey was dancing up a storm at my cousins wedding. I REALLY wish I could have been there but they did not allow us to leave on the weekends. But at least I got lots of pics and movies sent over to me! :)

But on Monday Zoey woke up with a fever so she has been home from school until today. My sweet mother in law took off to keep her since my mom took a vacation day on Friday to play with Zoey at the pool! :) It was SO hard being up here knowing she was home sick!

On Tuesday my awesome brother took care of Zoey!! Again we are so blessed with these amazing family members that take time out of their lives to help out in a moment’s notice!

But thank goodness her fever is gone now and she is back at school today!

So here we are in the homestretch! Eric is in Atlanta today but will be back soon and Friday we will finally be together as a family of 3 under the same roof. I can NOT wait!!!! But until then don’t worry I am busy, busy, busy being a little study bee! :)

One Year Later…

15 Jun

Wow! What one year can do! On one hand I can’t believe that Zoey has been home for an entire year. It seems like we were just in Korea. But then on the other hand I honestly don’t remember life before her! It seems like she has always been here with us and a part of our family!

So here I am one year later and sadly not spending our Familiversary like I had been planning for months. I am up here in New York for work and Zoey is back home but you know what…she is home! She is here with us and I am her mom and Eric is her dad so I wouldn’t trade our life together for the world.

So this time last year I was scared to death with this innocent little child who was scared to death too! Neither of us knew anything about each other and what in the world to do. (You can read more about that here.) But little by little day by day we have fallen in love with each other. Don’t get me wrong I loved her before I even knew about her but… we have both fallen IN LOVE with each other over the past year! It look a little bit longer on her end but the first time about 4 months home she walked on over to me and gave me the biggest hug ever and then looked up at with these eyes…oh these eyes that I can’t even describe…I knew that that was it! That we were finally there to this magic spot that I had always dreamed of!

This year has been a roller coaster of emotions, love, fun, hard times, good times, vacations, fun times at home, and all the little time of life in between but this year has been AMAZING! I will not lie it hasn’t been perfect by any means BUT I know that God has been there holding my hand all along and we are SO blessed to be parents to the cutest, sweetest, funniest, and most loving little girl in the world!

So even though I am miles away right now and our family is scattered over the map our heart is at home and we can’t wait to all be back together on the 22nd to celebrate our family day that weekend!

Week in Review- June 7th- 13th, 2012

13 Jun

Another week has come and gone with me here in New York. It has been hard…very hard because I miss my family and my life so bad but I know it will be worth it in the end!

So let me think about this week…no real highlights from me. Get up way early, go to class, study all day and all night, go to bed late, then do it all over again the next day. But we did get Saturday off so that gave us some time to go and explore the city. It was my first time exploring the city in warm weather. What a different atmosphere…especially the park! I ended up walking 15 miles that day with my new friends. We had a good time just getting out of the routine around here and taking our mind off of everything. I also got a stylish new “Michael Kors” bag from China Town that I am going to use as a diaper bag. Yes it is in quotes because it is not real but it looks pretty close! :) So that about wraps up my excitement.

So that leads us to Eric. He was busy still in LA working at E3. This is his busiest conference of the year that keeps him going all day and night. I have several pics in the slideshow for all of you guys who ask about Eric’s job! :)

And then there’s Zoey! I know she misses us but let me tell you…she is having a BLAST! It seems like everyday she has a new adventure planned. Whether it is nightly walks with my parents to feed the horses, or days at the lake, or dinners with Kendall, or play dates with her Aunt Jillian. Whatever it is she is having a blast and is being spoiled rotten.

We are SO blessed to have so many people wanting to spend time with Z. I very much appreciate all of you who have taken time out of your lives to take care of our precious girl while we have been gone. This has been so hard on me and my control issues (yes I thought i worked those out with the adoption waiting but apparently not…ha!). But I know that Zoey is being so loved and cherished that it has really made this easier on me and Eric. So one more week down and 1.5 more weeks to go before we will be back together as a family but until then I will keep having to live with Skype and the pics that everyone that has been sending me below. So y’all can enjoy the pics now too…

Week in Review: May 31st- June 6th, 2012

6 Jun

Ok WARNING…WARNING…this is one really sad, sappy, whiny post. I know and realize I have lots to be grateful for one including this great job opportunity I have been given. But…and this is a big BUT this week has been one of the hardest weeks ever because I had to leave Eric and my sweet baby girl for 22 days!

So the days leading up to this departure day (d-day) were pretty hard for me but luckily I had plenty keeping me busy. For one my work homestudy. I was slammed trying to get everything I needed done . Another item was my 10 year high school reunion. I had volunteered to do the slideshow for the reunion so the Friday before I went out-of-town I was scanning in pics that people had mailed in to be used in the slideshow!

On Friday I also took some maternity shots for Kendall. Of course I didn’t have time to edit that night but I was at least able to snap them just in case that baby decides to come before I get back in town…which by the way Blake better not try to make her appearance until I get home!

On Saturday we woke up and went to Overton Park for the reunion. I was a little disappointed that not a lot of people made it out to the park but I did have a great time catching up with everyone that was there! Zoey had a good time too playing with my friends kids.

Later that night me, Zoey and Eric all loaded up the cars and took the second load to my parents house. It takes a lot of stuff to keep a 2 year old for three weeks! :) We had decided rather than dropping Zoey off at my parents as we were rushing of to the airport that we would go the night before and I would spend the night there with her to get her comfortable and settled in before I left.

So when it started getting close to bedtime Eric left and there began really sad ugly cry number one! I think Zoey knew something was up too because she gave Eric 4 really sweet big hugs and one really big kiss too. It was so sweet!

But there was a BIG RAY of sunshine in the night. My brother came over to hang out with us and Kendall and Tim came too. Steve said they were all coming to tell me bye but we got a huge surprise. My brother asked us if we wanted to see a video on the computer from his recent trip and we all said yes. But what he really pulled up on the computer was his acceptance letter to medical school! Yes that is right all my brothers hard work and determination finally paid off…he starts UAB Medical School this fall!!! :) I am so proud of him! It was a very exciting night…lots of tears, hugs, and screaming. Zoey was so confused…ha!

So we all went to bed and woke up very early the next morning for me to be dropped off at the airport. I was trying to be strong for Zoey so she didn’t think me leaving her with my parents was a bad thing but an exciting and fun thing. So with God’s help I somehow managed to keep myself composed as I checked my bags and told Zoey by but as I got in the line for security and saw their car drive off I lost it. This old lady even came up to me and gave me a hug I was so upset…

So there I was alone and off for 22 days…ugh! I don’t mind flying at all. I am actually one of those crazy people who LOVE flying. So flight number one to Atlanta was not bad at all but the flight from Atlanta to New York was a bit different. We were flying along and nothing much was going on…good weather, no turbulence, etc. But then we started descending and went through this cloud and then all of a sudden the loudest noise and flash of red and orange happen right outside the window opposite of me. Everyone around me yelled…the flight attendants started scrambing…and I of course was a little alarmed. I had no idea what had just happened for what seemed like an eternity but was really only a minute or so before the pilot came over the intercom and said, “As I am sure you are all aware we have just been struck by lightning but it SEEMS like everything is ok.” Not sure how I feel about just guessing we are ok…we did bypass the airport and fly around for a while (which gave us lots of good views of the city and Lady Liberty). I am guessing they were checking everything out before landing. So our flight was 45 minutes late but we landed just fine praise the Lord!

So that leaves me here in New York. About 20 minutes outside Manhattan on Long Island. It is right past the Queens and Brooklyn boroughs. I am all alone and it is hard…really hard emotionally and mentally. I am so sad without Eric and Zoey. I know this will all be worth it but right now it seems like a long time and that it will never end!

So say a prayer for all of us. Eric is busy at E3 and Zoey is doing great at my parents. I think she has a hard time when she wakes up in the middle of the night but other than that she seems to be doing good…well not when we Skype. Our Skype sessions are horrible…she stands at the screen and cries so hard and hold her hand up for me to pick her up and of course that makes me cry…like the big nasty boohoo type of cries. So its rough…but at least I know she is in good hands and having a blast during the day at school and at nights with them!

So here we are 4 days down and what seems like an eternity to go…

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